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If you asked me some of my best tips for losing weight- after telling you to exercise and eat healthy foods (duh), I’d tell you to meal plan!

This is what has worked for me in the past because the structure has not only kept me “on track” but it has also forced me to put the time into thinking about what I’m going to eat before that moment arrives.

However, I think that meal planning is important for not only those of us who want to lose weight. Recently I haven’t been sticking to a plan at all, and I’m realizing now that I need one. Here’s why.

 

Benefits to Planning Ahead

 

Makes Dinners a Breeze

Thinking ahead can be helpful for a number of reasons. The first is that meal planning gives you a sense of what groceries you will need for the week. I find this especially helpful for planning dinners. Honestly, the last thing I want to do at the end of the day is go to the grocery store. I’d much rather come home, assemble some ingredients and call it a night.

Additionally, I find that in the evenings I’m much more likely to grab things that are convenient or less healthy because I’m tired and hungry. If the meal is already planned and the ingredients are purchased, then I know that I have to use them so they don’t go bad.

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Helps Your Creativity

I don’t know about you guys, but when I don’t plan snacks and meals, I find that what I grab on the fly to be very boring. No lunch planned? Ok, I’ll grab a yogurt, some crackers, and a piece of fruit. That may sound fine in the morning, but then around lunch time when everyone is eating sandwiches and salads, I feel kind of sad. This might lead to me wanting to go out and grab a replacement lunch. Usually the replacement lunch is not the healthiest choice, and then I’m out $5-$10 bucks.

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When I take the time to plan my food, I’m more likely to come up with good ideas for what to eat. I can create inventive and healthy snack ideas instead of just going with what is convenient. I can look up recipes online or page through a cookbook for inspiration. When I dig into a lunch bag that is planned versus one that I haphazardly put together, I KNOW the difference. And ultimately those planned days leave me more satisfied and with more energy.

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Meal Planning versus Intuitive Eating

Often I’ve found myself trying to go the more “intuitive” route when it comes to eating. Furthermore, many of the books I’ve read about overcoming emotional and binge eating advocate this kind of approach. (Geneen Roth for example). While I believe that intuitive eating is an important step in finding a healthy balance, I still think that there can be a place for meal planning.

Since I’ve become pregnant, I’ve become an intuitive eater more than ever, but I also haven’t been a very good planner. I basically just eat what I feel like eating and I don’t give myself a hard time about it because most of my favorite foods are healthy for me and the baby.

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Yet, lately I’ve found that my lack of planning is shooting me in the foot. I’ve started to end up with meals that are less balanced and less nutritious. This usually happens because I didn’t make sure to have good ingredients in the house, or I didn’t get creative in my snacks and ended up grabbing something packaged. Now that I’m working full time again, I really need to prepare ahead of time in order to ensure that I can put together healthy, balanced meals.

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The New Plan

As of today, I’m going to start writing out my meals again to help eat better and plan better. I’m not counting calories, and my meal structure is mostly based on the times of day that I typically get hungry. As of now I’ll be eating 3 meals and 4 snacks (the last snack of the day is usually my dessert). I also am not worried about veering off this plan, it’s really just there to help me, not to tell me what to do.

 

When I go to grocery store, I’ll have more of a plan, but this will certainly not stop me from picking up random items and treats if I want them.

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This is actually one of the most fun things I’ve allowed myself during pregnancy. For example, yesterday I picked up a box of delicious spice cookies (like gingersnaps) that I always see come out around this time of year. In the past I wouldn’t let myself buy them, but now I say yes to keeping more treats in the house.

 

Are you a meal planner? If so, how do you do it?

If you’re not a meal planner, can you share how your daily meals come together?

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So while I’ve been on my blogging hiatus, some things have changed in my life.

 

#1 . I’m not running

I’m really sad to report that I haven’t run since my half marathon in March.

Prior to the race I reported some pain in my feet that I thought was Plantar Fasciitis. The more I learned about it, it seemed there wasn’t much I could do. So I went forward with the race.

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After the race, the pain got worse and worse. I think that standing on my feet teaching 8 hours a day while training for a race really created some problems.

 

As it stands now (no pun intended), I can barely even make it through a trip at the grocery store without foot pain. My feet burn and throb. My arches hurt, my heels hurt. Flats hurt, heels hurt, sneakers hurt, sandals hurt.

 

Its at the point where I am feeling rather depressed about the pain, and even talking about it makes me want to cry.

 

I have a visit to the doctor scheduled for next Wednesday, and I am really hoping for some relief or at least some guidance.

 

Words can’t describe how much I miss running. It really had become a part of my life. Running helped me to find a balance in my life that I had never had before. Running changed the way I felt about my body, they way I felt about myself.

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Without running I have felt lost. 
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In the past week I started going back to the gym, doing whatever I can that doesn’t hurt too bad. But it’s not the same.

 

I will let you guys know what the doctor says.

 

#2. I’ve been struggling with my healthy eating

In the past few months during student teaching, I’ve struggled with my healthy eating balance. A crazy schedule, a lot of stress, and an inability to exercise due to injury have made me lose focus on my healthy eating.

 

I have fallen back into some bad habits including emotional eating and keeping some of my trigger foods in the house.

 

I’ve also been using eating as a release of stress in place of exercise. I make excuses about being tired and stressed and choose to avoid dealing with the issues and eat instead.

 

I recognize these behaviors and I’m hoping that with the end of the semester (and school completely), that I will be able to make some positive changes in my life.

 

 

I’m glad to be blogging again, I’ve really missed it, and all of my lovely readers. I’m hoping that you will stay with me as I work through these challenges and find my way back to a lifestyle that that is one that I am proud of.

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Oh how good it feels to be plopped on my couch right now. Even better is knowing that Joe is on his way home with a bottle of wine.

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This week, as you can tell from my scattered blogging schedule, has been really busy.

 

Lesson planning, my first observation, and everything else has kept me on-the-move.

 

Highlights of this week

  • I’ve been waking up at 4:50am and getting in my workouts
  • Subsequently, I’ve been going to be at 9:30pm
  • I had my first really bad day of teaching

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  • It was followed by some good self reflection
  • My meal planning this week was great

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  • Tried a great new recipe
  • I’ve been in tune with my body’s signals, even the ones telling me to eat for comfort

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  • I’ve been able to redirect those signals

 

This weekend I don’t have much planned. Tomorrow I’m sleeping in really late (9am?) and then hitting the gym and doing work for school.

 

Sunday I’m going for a training run with my friend Katie.

 

What are you guys up to this weekend?
What were your highlights from this week?

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After reflecting on some of my eating challenges this weekend, I realized that part of my stress is coming from not adjusting well to my new lifestyle.

 

Previously, I was home during the day and had time to go grocery shopping on weekdays and make dinners and lunches on the fly.

 

Things just aren’t that way now, and I really need to set myself up for success.

Poor planning is making it harder for me to eat right and eat smart, and when I’m low on food or slacking on planning, I tend to eat less nutritionally complete meals and more sugar.

 

I wouldn’t blame this for all of my binging, but I think that certain foods can trigger that "unsatisfied even though I ate a lot" feeling.

 

So yesterday I made a trip to two separate stores and I also cleaned out my fridge and got started on some prep for the week.

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The Plan:

Make lots of basic stuff so I can combine foods as I desire

 

Cut and prep veggies for snacks, salads,pasta and sides

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I also roasted some zucchini and broccoli (unpictured and I’m not sure why)

 

Quick grab and go carbs:

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Bulgar cooked in chicken broth

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Rinsed and drained chickpeas

 

Proteins

So I know the other week I was discussing my thoughts on being a vegetarian. Ironically this past weekend I started craving chicken like nobody’s business.  I’ve decided to keep it in my diet for now.

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Cooked up the chicken in a little olive oil and then tossed it in a mix of dijon mustard, honey, a dash of cider vinegar and whole grain mustard.

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Today it took me about 5 minutes to put together an awesome salad using all of the ingredients pictured above. I felt so full and satisfied throughout the day.

 

I’m so exhausted so I’m hitting the sack soon. Hope you all had a great day!

 

Do you do a weekly food prep? Tips to share?

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I’m Listening

So I just got back from an interesting run. The weather is so nice and I was excited to get out there and tackle 9 miles in the sunshine. However, despite the warm weather there were still icy patches and I took some detours.

 

Then I got LOST.

 

I overshot my turnaround point because I apparently was heading in the wrong direction. I ended up running 11 miles which is great even though I didn’t have to do that yet- thankfully I had my camelbak and a Gu for fuel to keep me going. I walked a bit too, but overall it was a successful run.

 

I think God knew I needed to be out there for a while to marinate on my thoughts. Maybe 9 miles wasn’t enough time. It was also an opportunity for me to be reminded how strong and powerful my body is, and how much it works for me. I need to treat it with the respect it deserves. That means not abusing it when I am stressed out. It’s time to find other solutions to stress that do not involve eating.

 

Finally, I just wanted to also say thank you all so much for taking the time out to offer your support, suggestions and love to me last night.

 

I really am listening to what you have to say. Today feels better already and I owe so much of it to you all. Here are some of the things you said that really spoke to me.

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Becky’s Blog

 

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Val’s Blog

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Katie’s Blog

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Eden’s Blog

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Tabitha’s Blog

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Tina’s Blog

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Carrie’s Blog

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Julie’s Blog

 

I hope your day is bright and sunny too. And thanks again for adding some sunshine into my world. I love my readers!

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One Day at a Time

Some ugly overeating demons have reared their ugly heads lately.

 

Maybe it’s stress.

Maybe it’s hormones.

Maybe it’s anxiety.

Maybe it’s guilt.

Maybe it’s boredom.

 

Maybe I don’t know why.  But I wish it would stop.

 

For the past week I’ve really struggled, and each day that doesn’t work out as planned compounds the day before and makes me feel worse and worse.

 

When I’m not in this binge-shame-repeat cycle, I feel so far from it, and wonder how I could ever be sucked back in.

 

But when I am back in the cycle, I wonder if I’ll ever get out.

 

Here’s hoping…..one day at a time.

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Nervous Nelly

Doesn’t January go fast?

 

This month is speeding by for me and most likely it is because I am in my last few days being a full time student.

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This past semester gave me the awesome flexibility to focus on my studies and attend classes every night. During the day I was able study (obviously), to run, cook, clean, keep myself and my house organized.

 

Starting on January 19th I will be full time student teaching (5 days a week/8am-4pm) and after that I will be looking for a job. I guess you might say the party’s over.

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I think however, that the best part of my one semester as a full time student was that I knew it was temporary. We saved the money, lived frugally, and were also comforted by the fact that I would soon be working again.

 

I’m sad to see this time go, but I know it’s necessary.

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The only thing is… I’m not good with change. As you know, I’m a routine/structure freak. So this is hard for me since I’ll need to adjust to my new schedule.

 

I can already tell that I’m trying add more structure to my life by doing things like training for a fake race.

 

Another way I can tell I’ve been dealing with the situation is through food. Although my meals have been okay, I’ve been doing a combination of over-planning and then over-eating. I’m thinking about food more than usual.

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When I’m at my healthiest, food is important, but it isn’t rigid. I think I’ve been trying to undo the holiday damage too quickly and it’s leading me to rebel.

 

Today is the day I slow down January.

 

I need to just take things day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute.

 

I think I’ll start by eating a relaxing breakfast.

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Peanut flour pancakes and fresh berries. That’s a step in the right direction.

Are you good with change??

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There is SOOOOOOOOO much information out there about holiday weight gain.

It’s ridiculous isn’t it?

 

Or maybe it’s not?

 

Around this time of year, I find myself feeling conflicted. I don’t want to be deprived of treats and delicious holiday foods, but I also don’t want to feel bad about myself throughout the holidays because my clothes feel tight.

 

Both choices have the tendency to leave me feeling distracted from what is most important- spending time with family and cherishing the special moments.

 

When the holidays come around, I am usually traveling. So I’m out of my normal routine and I am rarely the one preparing the meals.

 

This year, I really want to enjoy the holidays and find a balance that works for me.

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So here is my "10 Ways to Feel Good through the Holidays" checklist

 

10. Always pack running/workout gear even if you’re packing light. Fitting in some exercise will make a world of difference.

9. Focus on healthy goals that are easy to achieve even if you’re not in control of the food served. Can I still aim to drink 8-10 glasses of water? Sure! Water is always available

8. Try and get 5 servings of fruits and veggies daily (fruit tarts kind of count)

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7. At big dinners/meals, have what you want, but stick to 1 plate. It’s just a dinner, afterall.

6. When eating dessert, don’t eat anything standing up. Put all cookies, chocolates, etc. on a plate and sit and enjoy with coffee or tea.

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5. Don’t drink too much booze.

4. Only eat stuff you like. Just because it’s out doesn’t mean you have to eat it. I always find myself eating things like cashews because they are out. I don’t even like cashews.

3. Remember that 2 not-so healthy weeks isn’t the end of the world. And having control over food is not going to make you a better person, or more deserving of love, affection, or anything else.

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2. Be nice to yourself. Look around and you’ll see that 95% of people are indulging around this time of year. You don’t need to be a healthy eating robot all the time.

1. Clear up space in your mind to focus on family and friends. Enjoy conversation, or just observing. Being around those you love is the most important thing.

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Wishing you all the best this holiday season!! 
 
Love,
Jamie

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I’m completely obsessed with Peanut Flour

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I really like other KINDS of workouts besides running

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I still struggle with anxiety

Praxis Freak out post #1

Praxis+ Other stuff Freak out Post #2

Road Rage/Traffic Freak Out

I also got in an argument with my husband this morning over ordering a dining room set. I wanted to take care of it right away so I was short with him and obviously didn’t learn my lesson completely from the praxis experience. Now I’m no longer anxious about the table, just anxious about my behavior.

 

I still turn to (or away from) food when I’m upset

I don’t do this ALL the time, but it is still one of my coping mechanisms. Emotional eating isn’t always bingeing either. It’s can also be just eating as a distraction, or eating to silence feelings. Emotional eating can also be emotional NOT-eating in my opinion. And sometimes I find that when I’m upset about something, I’ll all of a sudden be focused on my body, when that had NOTHING to do with the original problem. It’s just a default position.

I’m so glad I realize this behavior so that I can continue to work on changing it. And I want to share with YOU that I’m still a work in progress and that’s okay.

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Sharing my life on this blog (good and bad) is also a good thing for me.

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So I thank you, for reading, and being a part of it.

What have you learned this week?

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Like the wind

I know I talk a lot about how running helped me to overcome my binge eating. I’ve mentioned that it has helped me to understand what my body needs for fuel and to become more in tune with my body.

 

Yesterday I noted how I was extra hungry, and I was! I ate a lot of food during meals and when snacking. At first I felt a little nervous about it, but I knew that the eating wasn’t emotional and that I really did need extra food. My body was telling me that it needed to refuel.

 

And since yesterday my appetite has stabilized. Just because I ate a lot yesterday doesn’t mean I’ve all of a sudden turned into an insatiable food monster. 

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But maybe if I wasn’t listening and instead tried to stifle my body’s messages, I would have reached a point where I couldn’t stop.

 

Today when I went running I felt strong, well fueled, light, and powerful. I had my fastest 5 miler since I started training and for the first time ever, all of my miles were under 10 minutes.

Distance: 5 miles Time: 47:25

Mile 1- 9:24/mi

Mile 2- 9:43/mi

Mile 3- 9:50/mi

Mile 4- 9:23/mi

Mile 5- 9:03/mi (WOAH!)

 

Just a while ago I lunched on some leftovers. Stirfry from last night with some tofu added into the mix and an orange.

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(yes i really did use the chopsticks)

 

In what ways do you listen to your body’s signals?


Do you have days where you are more hungry than others? How does it make you feel? How do you handle it?

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